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Rope bondage/Shibari has long been an interest of mine, as well as an element that MS enjoys sometimes during our play. I particularly enjoy the technical aspects of rope work and the resulting beauty of rope on skin. The bondage aspect adds to the allure and to the scene.
It had been a long time since we played with rope, and last night was an amazing re-entry into that part of our relationship.
As she prepared, I was distracted, watching her naked beauty as she undressed and used lotion. I lingered before retrieving my rope from where it is stored.
We started with a tortoise shell tie (hishi karada), standing. It was more for warmup, practice, and just seeing how it would look, opposed to being part of a scene. My intent for the scene was to include sex, and that tie does not allow for easy access.
Normally, MS does not enjoy the tying process as much, and is impatient to get to the “good part” (sex). She also is usually in a rush to remove the rope at the end. This time, the experience was completely different.
I untied and led MS to our home gym. It has enough floor space for rope work, and I set it up with a yoga mat, blankets, bolsters, and RGB LED light strips. I set the color to red. I also laid out my rope and a steel hook that MS requested for the scene.
We started on the floor together, sitting face to face. We started a yoga music playlist. I held her, running my hands over her back, then pulling away slightly to touch her face. We kissed, as I continued to hold her and run my hands over her entire body. She shifted to a position on her side on the floor, with her head in my lap. This is a favorite resting and bonding position of ours. I continued to run my hands over her body, and started speaking softly next to her ear.
I described the steps I would take to tie her, and what I would do with the hook and her body after she was tied. Normally, I do not go into the type of detail as I did this time. I compared the rope work to a web, which I would use to capture her and have my way with her.
I sat her up and turned her to face away from me. I picked up my first rope and slowly tied a chest harness, constantly touching her and talking softly. This time, I focused on making the back of the tie look beautiful. After the chest harness was complete, I laid MS down on the mat and moved down to her legs. I tied each leg in a frog tie using 3 tiers of rope extending toward each knee. I couldn’t resist having a taste while her knees lay open to each side with her feet together.
During this process, MS relaxed into the tying and did not try to adjust the rope or show any impatience. This was my first time tying this slowly.
I turned her over to lay face down across two bolsters. Her bottom was in the air, supported on her knees, with her feet tucked close from the frog tie. I tied her hand behind her back in a box tie, attaching her hands to the back of the chest harness. Now that she was completely restrained, caught in my web, I leaned down to quietly remind her of the request she made for the hook before we started the scene. I inserted it slowly, and tied the looped end to the back of the chest harness as well.
I ensured that she was comfortable and proceeded to take her from behind. After I was satisfied, I removed the hook and the rope restraining her hands. I laid her on her back and gave her her pleasure and release.
I carefully untied her legs, and covered her with a blanket as she was coming down and feeling cold. I held her, warming her and comforting her as she recovered from the feeling of cold. I helped her sit up and removed the final rope, the chest harness. I brought water for MS and we lay together for a few minutes, then got up to clean up, snack up, and go to bed.
We snuggled and held each other while falling asleep. It was a perfect evening.
In my experience this time, I learned more about MS and her headspace. Communication, setting the scene, and ensuring comfort help her reach the place she needs to be to truly enjoy the entire experience. This scene was more about the journey and experiences than reaching the end result of sex. I will use this to grow, and to improve our relationship and future scenes.
Ms put me first, and I really felt it. I made it to the right space and enjoyed the scene more. I felt our love and connection, and it was amazing.
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